Module 8 Outcome A

9/22/2013

1. When people want to make connections…
How do they act?
How do they talk?
How do they listen?
In what ways is this culturally embedded?

53 Comments

Keigan Dravis

11/10/2016 10:00:16 pm

Act: with eye contact, good body language, etc. Talk: respectfully, openly, honestly. They are usually close to the other people in distance. Different cultures have different things that are seen as respectful such as distances when talking to different people (ex. statuses)

Ashley

11/12/2016 11:04:08 am

When people want to make connections…
•They act in kindness

•They talk with gentleness

•They actively and openly listen

•By the way we are brought up

Cassie chao

6/4/2017 04:01:25 pm

I agree. Its important to build connection with communication of gentleness and respect.

Jennifer Gonzalez

11/12/2016 11:25:45 pm

The person usually does eye contact with their bodies facing toward the speaker they talk with respect and they listen attentively and many children learn by watching and copying.

Olena Velychko

11/17/2016 01:43:30 am

they act friendly and respectfully, listen carefully and paying attention, talking with respect

Miko

11/20/2016 10:41:07 pm

Act genuinely interested
Talk respectfully and at the children's level
Listen actively
Culturally embedded as children are constantly watching and acting like the adult caregivers they are around.

Hannah Tanner

11/22/2016 01:48:23 pm

You smile and make eye contact. you listen to them while they talk and you provide smiles and laughs when they are talking making sure they know you are listening. This is embedded in our culture by being friendly and caring to one another

Francesca Vespa

11/23/2016 08:13:08 pm

When people want to make connections, they are welcoming, calm, and attentive. They are sure to show interest and kindness, as well as being understanding. It is embedded in our culture to be friendly and respectful to everyone we encounter.

Donelle Berendes link

11/27/2016 05:52:33 pm

When people want to make connections, they act with kindness, they talk with care, they listen with attention and curiosity. It's culturally imbedded in family interactions and child caregiver's interactions and peer interactions.

Maggie

11/27/2016 06:45:32 pm

How do they act: With love and kindness
How do they talk: Listen and then speak
How do they listen: With interest
In what ways is this culturally embedded: Children learn by watching their family members

Tracy Williams

11/28/2016 07:32:15 pm

make eye contact and listen to them talk, and show interest and you care. Be Friendly, and warm! smile! Listening carefully and showing you care about what they have to say to you.
This is embedded in our culture to be polite and friendly to one another.

Eric Peterson

11/30/2016 02:57:06 pm

When people want to make connections…
They act respectfully and responsively, and show they care.
They talk with people, not at them, and they talk politely.
They listen actively, and are sincere.
This is culturally embedded because this is what we are taught as children.

Dani Hartshorn

12/7/2016 08:52:30 pm

They act respectful, kind and genuine,
They talk in a polite manner using a cheerful and warm tone
They listen intently and focused, they offer eye contact and wait before responding
This is cultural embedded by young children learning through observation and interactions with adults. What is considered polite varies to some degree in different cultures along with the appropriate response.

Jessica Hachman

12/14/2016 11:46:12 am

To make connections you to be warm and friendly. Always wear a smile and listen to what others are saying without judgement. Be courteous and talk to the person not at them. Connecting with people is culturally embedded because we start observing how our parents and care givers act being young and connect to people and see how peopl treat us.

Karlee McCarroll

12/15/2016 02:25:59 pm

By making eye contact and staying engaged. Also by showing you are interested through body language

Shannon

12/19/2016 10:26:28 pm

Act, talk, listen, culturally embedded. When people want to make connections they behave in different ways. Some may act open, warm, inviting, interested. They may talk in a friendly manner and have an open ear. The ways in which we respond in different situations including this one where one is wanting to make a connection, are affected by a few factors. One being our cultural background. We learn from what we see, what is around us, that becomes what we know. We pick up on the customs, styles, habits and characteristics attached to our cultural backgrounds.

Ashley Aiello

12/21/2016 08:26:34 pm

People can connect and interact with each other by acting, speaking and sharing with each other.

Kesha

12/23/2016 11:23:40 am

When you want to make a connection with someone act friendly and open. Talk with them about common interests and make eye contact, and you actively listen to what they have to say with out interruption. This is something that takes lots of practice.

Rachel

12/27/2016 04:30:43 pm

Erin Kathleen Ratliff

12/31/2016 02:55:13 pm

Be kind and respectful.
Use a courteous manner and voice.
Tell the child what they need to do rather don't do or stop doing.
Listen and ask open questions.
Children model what they see.

Terry

1/8/2017 08:08:41 pm

When making a connection with a child it is best to get on the eye level of the child - don't want David & Goliath effect. Then use a soothing, calm voice to talk with child, while smiling and maybe touch, if they seem open to touch. A good way to do this is to be an active listener & ask for a high five when they tell you something they show enthusiasm about. With the diversity of cultures in the U.S., touch and eye contact may or may not be a norm in a child's home life and that's why I feel it's best to let the child make first touch with the caregiver.

Jessica Coulson

1/8/2017 10:55:42 pm

When people want to connect they stand closer, make eye contact, smile warmly, talk in positive tones, ask questions, listen carefully and actively.

There are cultural standards to consider about how close is too close, and some cultures prefer to avoid eye contact.

Marci Gochnour

1/18/2017 01:12:53 pm

If there’s one thing we all want is to feel loved and connect with people. We want to feel deeply connected to other people, fully seen and appreciated by them, and secure in those relationships. Relationships can provide a sense of comfort, insurance, and protection. They truly are the most valuable things in our lives. People initiate meaningful conversations, give the gift of their presence, Change their beliefs about the culture, world and love. People notice that love might look different than they visualized it, value the people who they are, recognize the love they’re not giving and Look deeply at their needs and intentions.

Stephanie Laut

1/18/2017 08:40:37 pm

When people want to make connections they make direct eye contact and are very warm and welcoming. They talk with a lift in their voice and a smile or at least enthusiasm on their face. They listen intently, nodding head when they agree.When you pay close attention you can distinguish certain habits from different cultures and learn to appreciate the different nuances that make other cultures so respectful. For example, my Japanese bilingual class always say Thank you as a group at the end of class and they bow. It feels very respectful when someone bows towards you.

Sarah Allen

1/22/2017 03:36:20 pm

When people want to make connections…
How do they act? Students want to feel accepted and make connections with their peers and adults around them. They will try to act in a way that they feel will help them to make these connections. For many students, this may include approaching teachers to play or interact and interacting respectfully with those around them. For interactions with other students, it may include trying to play with others.
How do they talk/listen? People talk respectfully and listen thoroughly when they want to connect with others. This, as well as how people act, however, can be extremely culturally embedded.
In what ways is this culturally embedded? Ways of interacting through actions, speech, and listening are extremely culturally embedded in many ways. The ways that someone of caucasian descent who was born and raised by parents whose families have lived in the US for many generations may be extremely different from a child who is a second generation immigrant from Korea or a child who recently came to the United States from Mexico.

Joshua Martindale

1/24/2017 03:12:27 pm

When people want to make connections…

They act by being positive and focusing in on the person they are making a connection with.

They talk while looking the person in the eyes and speaking in a respective manner.

They listen with their eyes keeping contact, nodding their heads to show they are listening and let the person finish their thought before commenting or stating their own opinion.

This is culturally imbedded by the people around us. Family, Peers, etc. We learn how to talk, listen, connect through those around us while we are children through adulthood.

Farahia bare

1/24/2017 03:28:48 pm

Children are constantly watching their caregivers and following their footsteps, therefore we must think how we act, behave and speak to one another. Think of if someone is vedeo recording us 24/7 ; we would be putting our best. It's the same why only this time we are reshaping and implementing our behavior to a whole person who's going to be out in the society soon. Children listen to how we speak, interact each other, they want to their voice be heard and show that what they had to say is as important as adult and so forth
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Bailey Duenas

1/25/2017 03:59:01 pm

When people want to make connections…
They use good posture and act very politely,
They use a tone that is positive, trust building, and reassuring.
They use active listening to show they care and are fully devoting their attention to them.
It is culturally embedded because its usually the way our parents would act when growing up and we picked up on it.

sarah

1/26/2017 12:58:24 pm

connections with people can be acting with respect, listening skills,and culture effects it by who raised and how the child was raised

Danielle Newsome

1/26/2017 05:29:30 pm

1. When people want to make connections…
How do they act? Friendly, respectfully, calm
How do they talk? Good tone, nonjudgmental, nicely
How do they listen? With an open mind and carefully
In what ways is this culturally embedded? It's effected by who raised you and their beliefs on this topic

Maria Alvestad-Ereth

1/29/2017 01:54:20 am

How do they act?
How do they talk?
How do they listen?
In what ways is this culturally embedded?

When people want to make connections with others, they usually practice more active rather than passive listening. Generally people make lots of eye contact and try to seem warm and approachable. However, this is all fairly specific to my culture in the USA. Within other cultures, people male connections with each other in different ways because different customs, greetings, or behaviors are considered respectful in other places.

Rachel

1/29/2017 10:56:39 pm

When I want to connect with someone I make eye contact to give them my attention, I speak politely, and I nod to show that I am listening. This is very much a western way of making connections, in other cultures it might be rude to make eye contact. Culture has a huge impact on how we connect with one another.

Khadijah

2/11/2017 12:33:50 pm

When people want to make connections…
How do they act?

The provide undivided attention and aren't wiggling around.

How do they talk?

They talk with kindness, honesty, generosity.

How do they listen?

Kind of similar to how the act, however they also show eye contact and usually show signs of minimal hmmhs, and okays.

In what ways is this culturally embedded?

The way we learn these traits are what is practice at home as well as in our different environments that we are in.

Andrea Ofiara

2/11/2017 04:02:25 pm

When people want to make connections they will act with kindness in their voice and gestures. Usually how people were taught growing up to make connections is how they will go about it. Making eye contact and being attentive shows the other person that you are interested in what they have to say showing that you really do care about making the connection.

Lizz F.

2/13/2017 12:24:57 pm

-They ask questions, seek information, smile, try to be friendly, try to join other's activities

-Positive/happy tone of voice

-Listen for social cues, point of common interest

-Interests/personality are culturally embedded, extroverted-ness/method of approaching others based on culture/history (collectivist vs individualistic)

rukiya elmi

2/13/2017 01:00:09 pm

Ask question/ relax and smiley face
seek information
positive attitude
analyzing
atone of the voice

Heidi Likin

2/20/2017 12:10:51 pm

You need to both be active listeners.

sophia

2/24/2017 08:57:30 pm

they talk with respect. and be a good listener. have a positive attitude.

james murphy

3/5/2017 02:11:04 pm

When people want to make connections they act respectfully. They embrace the other person wholeheartedly and listen to their words and the underlying message behind those words. They talk in a positive and concerning manner taking into consideration the other person's perspective and points of view. In many ways human communication is culturally imbedded. Things such as looking someone in the eye, body language, non-verbal cues, are all different based upon the cultural background that people come from.

Jennifer Overmiller

3/8/2017 03:33:17 pm

When people want to make connection they make eye contact and speak gently and listen attentivly giving eye contact and talking/ litening at the other persons level.
In the ways this is culturally embedded is our body language and social cues.

Karly Schroder

3/14/2017 10:15:01 pm

When people want to make connections, they are active listeners, using eye contact, asking open ended questions, and noting their body language.

Aubrey Clawson

3/21/2017 07:52:10 pm

To make connections, people keep eye contact, use kind words and open body language. This is different in every culture and that influences the way individuals interact with one another.

Andrea Estola

3/30/2017 10:08:05 pm

How do they act? They act attentive, looking at the other person in their eyes and in their direction
How do they talk? They talk with warmth and understanding and not with a harsh or judgmental reaction.
How do they listen? They actively listen, letting the person finish their full thought before responding.
In what ways is this culturally embedded? It Istanbul to us through school and every social aspect we as humans and as us citizens.

Liliana Camacho

4/4/2017 08:58:30 pm

They act attentive, making eye contact
They talk kindly using nice soft voice.
They listen attentively.
This is culturally embedded as human beings

Megan Rockstad

4/10/2017 09:20:09 pm

they act kindly, attentively, and also use body language.
they talk using positive words and asking questions
they listen intently
this is embedded as humans

Jane Minifie

4/18/2017 07:05:38 pm

When people want to make connections...

1. They try to catch your eyes, look welcoming and trustworthy, smile
2. They talk in a friendly tone, make their voice higher and speak clearly. They ask questions and use answers to keep the conversation going back and forth.
3. They turn/bend their head towards you to make the space between smaller, so they can hear you closely. They focus on your words and say "mhmm" or "yeah" to keep you talking. Sometimes they repeat your answers to show interest.
4. This is culturally embedded in small talk and being friendly and therefore likeable. Eye contact is considered very respectful in North America, not meeting eyes is signs of "suspicious" people.

Heather

4/29/2017 03:07:39 pm

they talk and act with kindness and respect.

Esther

5/2/2017 11:00:35 pm

When people want to make a connection, they will act friendly and respectful. Talk directly to you, making eye contact. Listen quietly and actively, with body facing you and making eye contact.
This is culturally embedded by the way we are raised. Children watch and copy what they hear and see.

Megan White

6/5/2017 01:50:44 pm

When people make connections they act in a respectful and courteous manner. They talk in a polite voice, and they listen actively. It is embedded it small talk and social cues.

Tierra

7/6/2017 10:44:40 pm

Act with respect And love . Talk with a warm tone , polite and talk to them and not at them . Listen sincere and ask open ended questions

Ayita Berhane

8/12/2017 07:49:45 pm

When people want to make connections, they may smile, make eye contact and face the person they want to connect with. They will often talk clearly and with a friendly tone of voice. They listen attentively without interruption - this often includes eye contact. This is culturally embedded in a few ways. One way is that eye contact is not considered to be polite in all cultures - in some, it is considered disrespectful.

Brittany Williams

8/31/2017 06:13:34 pm

When people want to make connections they are friendly, smile, and ask questions. They talk in a friendly way and listen to the person they are talking to. This is embedded when children watch and learn from caregivers interactions.

rachel illeene wieland

10/30/2017 12:46:29 pm

They act by there body language and showing interest and eye contact.
They talk in a friendly manner.
They listen with open ears and again showing interest.
And it could be a cultural thing, or from the examples from others.

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