Scenario 3

Discussion: Parent Scenario 3* Module 5 Page 17 (8)

6/15/2016

60 Comments

Scenario 3:

Mom is angry because her child got magenta tempera on her shirt and it wouldn’t wash out. The shirt is ruined.

How might you handle this scenario?

60 Comments

Monica Correa

11/6/2018 09:41:23 pm

I would make the parent aware of the situation before she came in and saw it, that way she wont be so upset. I would also apologize and tell her next time we will do a better job on making sure it doesn't happen like getting aprons for the kids.

Alexis

12/17/2018 09:37:12 am

I would do the same

Jessica

12/19/2018 01:05:08 pm

I’d apologize and let the mom know I can buy the child s new shirt to replace it. And that next time I will be more careful and make sure she wears a smock so she keeps her clothes clean.

Kaytlin

11/7/2018 11:47:00 pm

The way I would handle a situation like a child getting a bright color like magenta on their shirt and then it not washing out causing the shirt to know be ruined and for the mother to also be very upset at me and the situation at hand would be to first apologize for this mishap and to tell the mom know that I fully understand her frustration and to prevent this kind of mistake from happening again I will rpovide each kid a shirt for during painting times or an apron.

Leslie

11/10/2018 06:52:07 pm

As others stated here, I, too would be respectful and apologetic about the incident. I would also assure the mother that precautions are taken such as wearing a smock and also that the materials we use are usually washable and offer to show the container. I agree with the suggestions, too, that the additional precaution could be taken in the future to change the child's clothes to something specifically approved for painting in. Mentioning the finished product being a beautiful creation and describing how much fun the student had working on the art would be a good idea, too.

Amanda Harris

12/17/2018 11:00:04 pm

Exactly be able to apologize and be respectful through the conversation are super important so you dont upset the mother even more.

Veronica

11/11/2018 09:33:58 am

I would apologize for what happened and ask the mom if she can bring special clothes for painting.

savannah young

11/11/2018 02:14:58 pm

I would apologize to the parent and ensure them that it was an accident. But in future the staff will be more mindful of placing clothing guards on children during art projects.

Amy Sommerlatte

11/14/2018 08:11:53 pm

I would first apologize. We really try our best to keep the child's clothes or belongings in good shape. I would just mention how sometimes accidents happen and with so many little ones sometimes they can get messy. I would ask for a special outfit that can be worn during crafts or the parent can send them in clothes that can be well loved.

Elizabeth

12/9/2018 08:32:28 pm

First is to apologize for the situation then next let her know that next time it will not happen again and that I’ll provide an apron to cover her next time for art time.

Marissa

11/15/2018 01:43:12 pm

First apologize for the mishap and be respectful of the mothers feelings and that next time we will take extra precautions to make sure it doesn't happen.. Its hard as children are unpredictable with paint but maybe get better paint shirts

Taylor Haven

11/16/2018 08:07:06 am

I would encourage the parent to send her child to school in clothes that she is not attached to, as our learning activities frequently can become messy (playing outside, finger painting, etc.)

Crista Havar

11/16/2018 12:50:07 pm

I would tell the parent that although we are very sorry that the shirt is ruined, create activities are very important in a child's development. I would suggest that the parent dresses the child in clothing that can get dirty and I would also direct the staff to be more careful about making sure that the child wears a smock and is supervised during messy activities.

Padmaja Kondeti

11/16/2018 01:35:49 pm

I will first apologise to parents for the color and request parents to send them in clothes which they are not very much attached when they will do this type of activities, because we can't stop kids in doing any activity which they enjoy.

Josephine Pleake

11/17/2018 01:27:02 pm

I would apologize and let her know we do try to keep the children from getting paint everywhere. I would probably ask if there is a shirt that we can keep for when we paint again just incase it happened again. We would also make sure the painting apporon was properly tied so that the mess is less.

Makayla

11/17/2018 06:26:14 pm

Sincerely apologize for the shirt being ruined and offer to buy a new one or give money for a replacement. And again apologize.

Gretchen

11/18/2018 12:17:36 am

I would talk with the parents about the situation and listen to their frustrations. I would apologize but I would also try to come up with a solution with the parents explaining to them that we do try and prevent accidents like this from happening by having them wear something to cover their clothes. I would ask the parents if they would like for us to start putting on clothes that they bring from home that they don't mind getting paint on incase of an unforeseen accident. I would also bring up the option of letting the child wear one of the extra shirts/pants at the childcare if they would prefer that.

Darci

11/18/2018 10:55:28 am

I would apologize after listening respectfully to her frustration. It does not say in the scenario, but I am going to assume that the childcare had the children put on painting smocks of some sort. I am also going to assume that when she received the parenting handbook for the childcare center it may have (mine does) say something about how learning comes in a variety of forms at the center and often we do activities that are messy so it is a great idea to send your child in clothing that can get messy and dirty (and in this case stained). So, I would gently remind her that we do all kinds of activities during the day as part of our learning. Sometimes that learning includes painting and while we do have the children wear smocks during painting time, sometimes accidents occur. We are very sorry that this resulted in the stained shirt. Could we brainstorm for some possible future solutions? Sending a different outfit for painting is a possibility, though logistically challenging (painting does not last long). Another option would be to send your child in an outfit that can get dirty, messy or even possibly stained so that learning and play can happen at school. I wouldn't want your child to feel like they couldn't fully participate at school because they were afraid of ruining their clothing.

Victoria DeanEwing

12/8/2018 06:11:35 pm

Definitely agree with this. Proper clothing for school and daycare and/or extra clothing is a good idea. Its expected these things are going to happen with messy activities at school. We want the children to be able to and feel they can participate.

Aliah

11/18/2018 04:27:34 pm

I would firstly apologize for the mistake, as it was my fault for not supervising enough and it happened. I would assure her that it was a mistake, and to not be mad at the child, as it was likely an accident. Sometimes when children are doing crafts, they get a bit messy. I would tell the mother to not worry too much about messes, since kids are prone to finding creative ways to make them.

Tiffany Goos

11/19/2018 10:26:59 am

remind her we will do are best to keep her in the smock while painting or that she can bring her paint shirt that we can put her in.

jessica

11/22/2018 01:38:33 pm

i would let the parent know before they came in and saw it with out knowing why and how

Valerie Sweisthal

11/25/2018 04:29:31 pm

It is important to listen to the parent. I would then apologize to mom and ensure her that we strive to not let things like this happen. We buy washable paints and the children are taught to push up their sleeves and wear a smock when painting.
Her daughter had fun and enjoyed the project, what can we do in the future to keep this from happening again?

KARI A WORKMAN

11/26/2018 01:48:04 pm

I would appologize and be understanding of how hard it is to keep children's clothes looking good and just making sure they have clothes that fit. But I would also reassure that we use aprons or a cover (like a larger shirt to go over the regular clothes that ties in the back) and I always try to use paints and markers that are easier to wash out. I would offer for the future to keep an extra shirt on hand for art and craft time so as to not continue to ruin clothes. And then try to turn the focus on how much fun her child had and what they had created.

Virginia Paddock

11/28/2018 09:10:24 am

I agree, having an extra apron Incase the one the child is wearing is soaked through with paint

Virginia Paddock

11/28/2018 09:08:32 am

I too will have to agree with my fellow peers, You should definitely apologize first to the mother, then empathize with her as well about the shirt. I would then tell her we will remember to put on aprons for the art project.

Miriam Kolker

11/28/2018 12:29:42 pm

I would first apologize to the mother and acknowledge her frustration. I would let her know that her child was wearing a smock, so precaution was taken. I would reassure her that her child had a wonderful time with the art project and recommend she bring in special clothes we may change the child in for future art projects.

Anita Utheim

11/28/2018 12:59:34 pm

I would let her know I'm sorry about the shirt, and that I will do a better job at making sure each child is wearing a painting smock. I would also add its best to not send your child to school in things that you would be upset if ruined because they are children and accidents do happen.

Alysha Phelps

11/28/2018 10:56:00 pm

I would be apologetic, and work out options for the future when it comes to paint, such as advanced warning for parents to bring in painting clothes or for our center to invest in paint smocks to cover the kids when they paint. Either way we would talk respectfully and be caring in our response to her concerns, even though it's just a shirt the mom may not be able to afford to continually replace shirts and we need to be aware of situations such as these.

Talia Felice

11/30/2018 10:17:39 pm

I would start off by apologizing to the mother about ruining her daughters shirt. I would then assure her to make sure an incident like this won't happen again and that I will do my best to supply something to protect the child's clothing next time. If the mother is still pretty upset I would offer to personally replace the shirt.

Hannah Tucker

12/1/2018 04:08:22 pm

I would immediately sympathize with the parent as no one likes a stained shirt. After apologizing, I would explain why creative outlets such as painting are important to positive development. I would then suggest that since the shirt is already stained, that we keep it at school as the child's "art shirt." That way the shirt is not rendered useless, and the child does not feel punished for participating in a school activity.

Danielle

12/3/2018 01:25:33 am

I would apologize for the shift and suggest she sends clothes the child can paint in on the days where the children can paint. I would also invest in smocks or aprons.

Brenda Figueroa

12/5/2018 10:10:32 am

Oh no! IF they got color on the shirt and the parent is upset they must have trouble to get another shirt? I would try and going forward make sure that they always wear a smock when they work and do my best to ensure it never happened again.

Victoria DeanEwing

12/8/2018 06:04:48 pm

I would make the parent aware of the paint on the child's shirt and apologize for it. I would reassure the parent that for future painting activities, we will provide the child with a smock or painting shirt, and that this wont happen again. I would tell the parent that the child had lots of fun, and was so proud of his/her creation.

Emily DenBleyker

12/8/2018 11:05:03 pm

I would apologize to the mother and assure her it wouldn't happen again. In the future, we will keep a paint shirt specifically for her child and make sure that her clothes remain as clean as possible.

Caitlin

12/9/2018 02:33:42 pm

I can let her know that her daughter can wear an apron from now on and suggest that if she will not wear the shirt anymore that we can take it to be apart of our spare clothes bin.

Elizabeth Mahoney

12/12/2018 07:47:29 am

After listening to the mom about her frustration and anger. I would first apologize for not keeping a better eye on the paint and the child. I would continue to tell her about the precautions we do take-such as a smock. I would continue to tell her that in future we could something more to protect her child's clothes from future paint. I then would finish by telling her how much fun her child had.

Krista Webb

12/12/2018 11:48:07 am

I would apologize for what happened because as a parent I know that this can be frustrating. Then i would offer her some solutions for the future such as wearing clothes that it would be ok if they happened to get something on it, or to send a smock or extra shirt for painting.

Alaethia

12/13/2018 05:13:36 pm

I would first apologize to the parent for not paying better attention to the mess. I would then say that the child had a lot of fun and did amazing work. Then I would go on to assure her that we would work harder next time to cover the child's cloths and keep the paint off of her.

kayla

12/14/2018 10:01:03 pm

First let the parent express themselves fully while listening with ought interruption. next I would apologize about the situation and express that understand their feelings. then I would tell them I will provide smocks or paint shirts to try and prevent this in the future. then I would ask if it is possible to send the child in play clothes that she doesn't mind getting dirty because children like to play and experiment and it helps them learn

Eileen Doherty

12/17/2018 04:40:27 pm

At the center where I work, parents know in advance that having free access to materials and being allowed to get dirty while engaged in play are all to be expected. Aprons are available for children to wear while painting, and though we always use washable paint and materials, sometimes the children's daytime clothes will get dirty at school I'd ensure her that the paint should wash out. I'd ask if she had been advised of our policy to let the children get dirty, and encourage her to send in clothes appropriate for that, so that her child could get the very most out of the activity. I'd stress the value of the experience for children this age.

Tami McDonald

12/17/2018 07:57:01 pm

I would apologize for the incident and ask if she needs assistance in acquiring a new shirt. I also would make sure she is aware of the lesson plans and when these types of events are happening so she can put the child in appropriate clothing and we should have aprons or smocks to cover the clothes for these activities.

Naomi Summer

12/17/2018 10:03:51 pm

I would calmly and politely listen to her concerns and apologize for what happened. I would tell her that we will make sure she is wearing smocks and things like that for future art projects, but also give her an option of bringing in a pair of old clothes or a shirt that she could use for painting or other messy projects in the future. I would make sure to be understanding and validating of her feelings.

Amanda Harris

12/17/2018 10:58:47 pm

In this situation I would explain to the mother how the shirt got ruined. I would tell her I am very sorry anf I u derstand why you are upset. I would tell her I should have thought to use paint shirts or some sort of apron to ensure clothes didnt get ruined. I would even consider offering to pay to replace the shirt if I felt it truly was my fault alone.

sarah

12/18/2018 01:08:24 pm

I would apologize to the mother for the damage to the clothing. I would let her know that i will do my best to ensure her daughter is wearing an apron and has her sleeves rolled up when paining. I would give her (another) copy of our schedule and ask that no special clothes be worn on painting day, or suggest she leave a painting shirt we could change into.

lizette

12/22/2018 12:15:45 pm

I would first start off with apologizing and offer to replace the shirt. then i would talk to her about maybe sending clothes that she would be okay with using when participation in messy activities. if not an option i would tell tell her i would make note and notify teacher for next time and always make sure she had a bib or apron on.

Emma Hodgson

12/23/2018 01:16:55 pm

Firstly, I would apologise. Moving forward, I would ask all parents to have their child bring in an old t-shirt/shirt or apron for the next time we work with materials that may stain. I would also bring families' attention to the fact that they should dress their child appropriately for day care with the understanding that they will get dirty at times and that that is OK and can be indicative of a really engaging session with the child.

Jesie pittman

12/25/2018 07:29:10 pm

First I would apologize and explain how it happened (working with one year olds they like to dump the paint still)
I would offer to give her a replacement shirt. I then would let her know that in the future I will take extra precautions to prevent this from happening again. And finally I would let her know how to get the paint out since washing and drying only sets the stains. She needs to soak in dawn dish soap before throwing it in the wash.

Jennie

12/26/2018 10:50:06 am

Oh I love this scenario because it brings to light a wonderful new system to create - accidents happen and we need a net to catch and proactively fix. Having a non-staining medium would have been great, but having a clothes fund to support kids and accidents that come up would be even more awesome! Plan for the unexpected and have a little net to catch and support. Then the parent won’t be as upset because a replacement is available. Always apologize and have compassion for the parents of course, but have a solution available as well.

Serena Stanton-Jackson

12/26/2018 06:38:30 pm

I would let the mom know before she saw the shirt but also remind her that her child is young and her clothes are meant to be played in. I would let her know I provided an apron but accidents do happen.

meredith

12/27/2018 12:44:46 pm

I'd say that I understand it's frustrating to have a child ruin their clothes. I'd state that paint play is really good for a growing child and that we could bring in a designated paint shirt for days where we paint so that other clothes don't get ruined too. I'd also remind the mother that the kid will probably grow out of those clothes in a matter of months, if the parent seemed to be good-humored.

Mattison Hone

12/28/2018 04:29:17 pm

I would first apologize to the mom and listen to her and make sure she feels heard and understood. I would then tell her that next time I will be sure the children are wearing aprons or wearing clothing that parents have ok-ed as fine for wet messy art.

amanda

12/28/2018 08:31:22 pm

first apologize and then let them know we do have smocks to keep their clothes protected but sometimes children do not like wearing them and also ask them if they would like to bring some clothes that they do not mind getting dirty and we can change them into them if we have a messy activity

Taquoia Bentley

12/28/2018 08:43:15 pm

I would first apologies to the parents and let them know that children learn through expressive play and that we want them to learn and be creative own their own and that next time you will find a better way to keep their clothes protected.

Arlonda Harris

12/28/2018 08:43:48 pm

I would apologize to the parents and explain to them that children learn through play, and that we allow children to be creative as possible in our care. I would offer to purchase another shirt and then I would let the parents know that they should provide clothes that can be stained and get dirty.

Charli Glidden

12/29/2018 08:55:17 am

I would apologize to the parent, while trying to remind them that paint is fun and sometimes messes are okay. First and foremost though, I would apologize, and assure her that I will make sure her child wears an apron next time.

Mckenzie Malley

12/29/2018 11:26:36 pm

I would apologize to the mother and reassure her that next time we will try our hardest to keep her clothing protected by either a smock, apron or painting shirt and encourage the mother to dress the child in play clothes that could get dirty in the event of an incident.

Andrea Kornfeind

12/30/2018 05:56:41 pm

Acknowledge her frustration, apologize, make sure child is in a smock or suggest child wear clothes that can get dirty if smocks arent available, be proactive in washing shirt if happens again in future.

Reese

12/31/2018 01:38:39 am

I would approach this situation with as much sympathy as I can muster. Listen to how the mother feels, and assure her that you understand her frustration. Apologize for any and all inconvenience. Brainstorm ideas to make sure it doesn't happen again, like an apron.

Mindy Inman

1/2/2019 03:00:25 pm

I would apologize and encourage the parent to bring extra clothes specifically designated for messy activities. These activities are essential to their learning process.

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