Discussion: Age-Appropriate Infant Scenario * Module 2 Page 24 (12/13)

6/4/2016

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Do you think this behavior or expectation is age-appropriate?
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Is there anything you can do to prevent this situation from happening again?

Infant Scenario:
Jamal is almost 10 months old and just entering the separation anxiety stage—when older babies or young toddlers resist separating from their primary caregiver. This is a normal part of growth and development and a milestone in social-emotional development that shows Jamal’s attachment to his mother. Jamal’s parents are concerned because he is now crying and clinging when his parents bring him in the morning. They are worried that something has happened to him since he didn’t act this way for the previous 4 months he’d been at your center.

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Jenny Khalema

9/28/2018 03:19:46 pm

Yes, the behavior is age appropriate because the baby knows his parents.
I would explain that this is a milestone in this age group and it means that the child is developing well for his age.
I would provide reliability and consistency for this child so he can know what to expect when he comes to daycare.

Alexis

12/10/2018 09:14:08 am

Yes

kassidy cram

12/19/2018 09:36:23 pm

I agree, I would also maybe provide a distraction or activity for the child so that the parents could leave and not feel bad and by the time the child realized that his parents were gone he would be too attached to his current project to care.

Katie Norbie

9/28/2018 04:30:26 pm

In my experience 10 months old is a common age for children to experience separation anxiety.
I would explain to Jamal's parents that as his brain develops he is becoming increasingly aware of his surroundings which sometimes results in heightened stress during transitions and is nothing to be alarmed about as it shows he has developed a healthy relationships with his family.
To ease Jamal's transitions during this time I would encourage his parents to bring a favorite cuddly toy or blanket from home for him to have at day care. It is also helpful for the parents to show confidence in the care provider when the child is present as it will make him feel more secure.
Reminding the child on the way to day care of the fun things he does there can also be helpful even if Jamal doesn't understand everything being said. Talking about the care providers and other children at day care with excitement before drop off time help promote a sense of enthusiasm for what is about to take place.
I have also noticed that brief, but meaningful goodbyes are preferable to prolonged ones as drawing out a goodbye during the transition from parent to day care care provider gives the child a sense of uncertainty about who is in charge and will meet the child's needs.
The care provider can help ease the separation anxiety by showing support and friendliness to the parents and offering Jamal any favorite toys, songs or activities he enjoys.

Danielle

11/21/2018 10:21:51 pm

I agree with you and to parents that are concerned about their child I would invite them to call to check on their child later in the day. In my experience older infants and young toddlers often cry when first being dropped off but calm down within a few minutes of parents departure.

Padmshree Roy

9/29/2018 01:48:12 pm

Separation anxiety is normal at this age and we need to show the parents what is separation anxiety and also tell them , this is normal and expected development and positive behavior,

Laura Arguello

11/25/2018 01:25:21 pm

I agree, this behavior is age-appropriate, and I would let that be known to the parents. I would let them know baby has now reached a milestone, he recognizes his parents and has that attachment to them, which causes the separation anxiety. To try to prevent this situation from happening again we would have the same care giver welcome the child every time and spend that extra time with them so they can feel more familiar and welcomed, hoping to get rid of the anxiety.

Kendra Londo

9/29/2018 01:48:16 pm

This is a compelely age appropriate reaction at 10 months old. Reassuring Jamals parents that separation anxiety will get better and that he is being taken care of when left, will help the parents to relax and transition as well.
Having Jamal dropped off to the same teacher everyday in a welcoming enviroment will help the childs anxiety be soothed with a stable enviroment.

Cameo Nicole Bodey

9/29/2018 03:08:41 pm

1. This behavior is normal, age- appropriate and is not a red flag or concerning behavior.
2. I would explain to parents and coworkers that this is a normal milestone in the child's development and that he will grow out of it in time. I would assure the parents that he will be carefully looked after throughout the day. He will be nurtured and that this will pass. I would let them know that they are welcome to call or show up during the day at any time to check on him and make sure he's on.
3. In the future, I could nip this is the bud by having literature regarding this milestone to give to the parents before the behavior started.

Mary Lord

11/14/2018 09:22:00 am

I totally agree with these statements. I love the idea of providing parents with the information regarding infants and the many milestones they will be experiencing and reinforce the fact to them that this is normal for a child of his age to begin to display this behavior at drop off. In my experience with children this age and older who react this way at drop off is that they recover quickly once the parents are gone and get busy with play. I would explain this to the parents and reassure them that he will be nurtured and loved by myself and staff. I would make sure I had some extra time to spend with him at drop off to help his transition and give him lots of reassuring cuddles and loves and when he's calmed down I would begin to distract him with play.

Erin

11/24/2018 05:45:14 pm

I agree with this statement. Separation anxiety is normal in childhood development. I would also explain to the parents that their child is developing "object permanence". It is the beginning stage of them thinking that mom and dad have left so that must mean they are gone. Infants have no concept of time at this age. Like you said, letting the parent know they are nurtured and it will pass. Even though you cannot avoid a hard drop off, timing can help ease the process and making sure there is a drop off with a familiar face.

sahar

9/29/2018 04:08:45 pm

I will show love and keep nurturing to kid and make a communication with parents to let know that its normal behaviour

Briana Owes

9/29/2018 07:02:34 pm

This is normal behavior for this stage in the infants development. I would explain to the parents that it is because in this stage of developments infants tend to create strong bonds with their parents and primary caregivers. This is a sign of a healthy relationship. I would insure the parents that I will comfort the infant until they are calm again and ready to play with their friends.

Hailey

11/6/2018 02:14:30 pm

I agree, just explain to them that it is completely normal for their age and assure the parents that you will do anything you can to make the child comfortable. Usually once the parent has left it doesn't take long for the child to become comfortable and start playing.

Madison Merrill

9/30/2018 03:19:32 pm

1. Yes, I do think this is expected at this age.
2. Infants are getting used to familiar faces like Mom or Dad's faces and may react when separated from them. They like familiar and secure faces and surroundings. 3 of my 4 kids went through separation anxiety at some point in their lives. 2 at this age in infancy and the other when beginning kindergarten.
3. There may not always be a way to prevent it but there is a way to help ease the transition of being dropped off like keeping the same, friendly familiar faces in the classroom, not lots of turnovers from staff. Also, making the classroom feel safe and fun so the child wants to be there and is excited to come every day.

Nicole Z

11/16/2018 04:13:29 pm

I agree with you Madison! I have also experienced similar situations with children at that age being hesitant to leave their parents during drop-off. I know that this is appropriate for the child to behave in this manner because it shows that he is developing special and necessary bonds with his parents. I also agree with your ideas for ways to ease his transition by keeping his schedule consistent: drop-off time, pick-up, less turnover staff, etc. One more thing I would add, however, is if allowed, Jamal could being a small comfort item from home for him to be comforted with. We could also find ways of reassuring him that his parents are coming back to pick him up.

Solita J Nichols

9/30/2018 03:23:57 pm

This is normal and the child is needing to form other attatchments. Leaving the child there will help them learn that it is ok and that their parent will come back.

chelsea

9/30/2018 08:29:32 pm

Yes, perfectly normal behavior.

diana

10/1/2018 02:08:15 am

I try to explain to the family that some children, when they get more understanding, like to be more at home with their parents and they are more dependent on them, and I convinced them that there would be no problem for their child and for Whether their minds are involved in thinking about their child after a few I call them and I will report their child's work after an hour.

bhargavi

10/1/2018 02:52:53 pm

separation anxiety is normal at this age and it is very hard for parents too. both sides needs some time tough, i will try my best to help a child and talk to parents,maybe updating his condition during the day to fell better for parents

Kelsey Glacken

10/1/2018 06:47:53 pm

1. Yes because the child is starting to form attachments and is showing a natural attachment to their parents.

2. I would explain that the child is forming new attachments and bonds and that that's a good milestone. It is normal and it is nothing to be concerned or worried about.

3. I would keep showing them love and try to bond with the child as much as possible to ease the pain of the separation issues the child is facing.

Jessica Burrowes

10/1/2018 07:08:31 pm

It is a normal milestone that every child goes through. It shows the relationship between child and parent and its also the child testing the parent to see how far they can go, which is completely normal as well. I would explain to the parents that every child goes through this, its completely normal. I would show the caring and compassion towards both the parents and the child and make the transition easier by disracting the child with another activity

dennis earl Mcdonald

10/2/2018 10:58:22 pm

I do believe that Jamal's separation anxiety is developmentally appropriate for his age. I would explain to the family that this is a milestone that all children around this age go through. Although there may not be anything in particular that can cure the situation we could come up with strategies in order to ease his transitions from his parents leaving. Things such as having the parents getting him involved in an activity or a favorite toy that way he is engaged. We can also talk about how to make drop off time as quick as possible. I can also send pictures after they leave to show that he is calm down and engaged back into what's going on in the classroom.

Ceria Blue

11/4/2018 06:09:50 pm

The behavior is appropriate for the child because they are entering the developmental stage of separation anxiety. I would begin by telling this to his parents and also explaining that it isn't anything we have don't personally to him. I would try to change this behavior by having the parents play with him until he gets somewhat distracted by the toys so that they can slip away without him getting upset.

Crista Havar

11/4/2018 07:35:31 pm

I would explain to the parents that separation anxiety is a normal and vital part of a child's development. I would hold and comfort Jamal to the best of my ability and try to engage him in an activity that will get his attention and distract him from his parent's leaving. Then we they return to pick him up I would make it a point to say something like" See! Mommy always comes back!" and in doing so build trust. Playing games like peek a boo and hide and go seek can also help a child understand that when someone is not visible that they will return.

Maile Foss

11/5/2018 09:13:33 am

I would assure them that this is a totally normal part of development at this age & work with them to keep a simple drop off routine (quick hug, good bye, etc) so that the child would in time learn the new routine & become accustomed to his new schedule/environment.

Morgan link

11/5/2018 01:18:03 pm

Yes it is age appropriate and i think we could reasure the parents that lots of kids act this way and time will make it better.

Hannah Folsom

11/5/2018 01:48:40 pm

This is both very normal and very age appropriate, this is a milestone because it shows that the child is beginning to learn and more closely pay attention to what is happening in his surroundings. Sometimes it is preventable if a parent were very consistent with their timing but otherwise it is up to the child whether or not they will have separation anxiety

siara

11/5/2018 02:01:59 pm

1. very normal and age appropriate
2. i would let the parents know separation anxiety is very normal

Max L Hanson

11/5/2018 02:52:08 pm

And 3. To help prevent it from happening, could ask the parents to spend some time with the caregiver to feel comfortable leaving the child with the caregiver, as the child will follow the parents fear of leaving the child, and will continue to cry until the parent feels safe leaving the child with us. Also, to create a specific order of events before leaving the child, and stick to the order, as the child will get used to the schedule and will be less upset with the increase in the order.

Mounika

11/5/2018 03:33:58 pm

separation anxiety is normal at this age and it is very hard for parents.Both sides needs some time, will try my best to help a child and talk to parents,maybe updating his condition daily to parents

Monica Correa

11/6/2018 07:05:51 pm

I do think this behavior is expected, at 10 months children start to be more aware with their surroundings and noticing their parents are leaving. I would distract the child like show him a certain toy or read him a book and sit and cuddle with him so he can feel safe while his parents leave. I would tell the parents to reassure him that he comes every-time and every-time they come back for him. I would talk him through it and have the parents let him know when they will be back because hearing that reassurance they may feel better each time.

Andrea Chavez

11/6/2018 11:02:59 pm

Yes, the behavior is age appropriate because at this stage babies start to get attached to mommy and daddy and realize when being left.
I would take the child and try to distract them with something they enjoy doing while in care (coloring, playing with cars, Barbie's etc...) while parents head out by then he/she wont even realize when they left.
yes, by reassuring the child that mommy or daddy will come back for them.

Jessica Alvillar

11/7/2018 01:12:18 am

1. Jamal crying and clinging to his parents is normal behavior for a child his age going through separation anxiety.
2.I would explain separation anxiety as a normal behavior for young children. I would reassure the parent that their child is safe and that we are here to help the child calm down. I would also offer parents resource that discuss separation anxiety.
3. There are certain things that can help ease children's separation anxiety. One thing that parents can do is create a drop off routine. In the drop off they need to reassure the child that they will be back. It is important that the parent says goodbye to the child and not sneak out. It maybe be hard to see their child cry and cling to them but with the assistance of the caregiver drop off can be easier.

Xiuhua Ding

11/7/2018 04:03:18 am

the behavior is age appropriate, distract him with toys and have the parents still there playing with him for little while, let him get use to the environment

tabatha adaszewski

11/7/2018 04:33:05 pm

Yes, the behavior is age appropriate because the baby knows his parents and is secure in his or her relationship with them.
I would say that this is a milestone for this age group and it means that the child is developing well. I would work daily with the child and parents to ease this transition, maybe find an activity to distract them at drop off time.

Ramou Singhateh

11/7/2018 06:36:57 pm

It is a normal milestone that most children go through. It shows how strong the relationship between the child and parent is growing . I will comfort Jamal and reassure his parents that its normal for kids his age to experience separation anxiety .Making sure he feels more welcome and engage him in an activity he have interest in .

HAJI A HAJI

11/7/2018 08:01:43 pm

Yes, Jamal behavior is age appropriate since he is entering the separation anxiety stage, its common at this stage to behave this way, I will explain to his parent that this is normal behavior, it means that the he is developing well for his age.

Clarita Whatley

11/7/2018 08:46:22 pm

For some children it is normal to be clingy to their parents even after being there for months. I would assure Jamal’s parents that his separation anxiety will get better in time, and they can always call or stop in to check on him at any time that his in our care. Also we could share any thoughts and ideas to help him overcome this.

Padmaja Kondeti

11/8/2018 03:33:14 pm

Yes ,this is a age appropriate behaviour, when the child cries will ask parents to leave child and will read books or play with some toy with him/her which soothe child.i will make assure to the parents or care giver that the child is safe and will be happy.

vanessa kitto

11/9/2018 10:23:48 am

Explain to the child's parent's that the child is hitting the age that separation anxiety is becoming a thing. and that we will confront the child. and they can call anytime that they want to, to be able to check on the child

Nicole

11/13/2018 01:36:32 pm

This behavior is common for a child his age. I would tell the parents that it is a sign that the child has developed a positive relationship with them and that he is developing as expected. I would comfort the child when leaving and encourage the parents to not linger. The child will learn that it is okay and that his parents will be back.

Maria Zuniga

11/13/2018 08:30:17 pm

yes , most babies at Jamals age go thru this and its just a milestone we have to work together to get thru this, nothing is happening while he is in care, just that he is more aware of his surroundings. the parent needs to be confident for the child and reassuring that everything is ok , maybe bringing the childs favorite toy or blanket

mariya link

11/15/2018 06:21:00 am

1. completely normal at 10 months to be attached and not want to leave his parents
2. explain to the parents that its normal and keep updating them what happens through out the day
3. love on the baby and make sure to create some consistancy so he knows what is coming next

Cynthia Lopez

11/15/2018 02:55:03 pm

The child is learning and forming a tighter relationship because his brain is forming more cognitively. It is a learning milestone and I would reassure the parents of that. I would make sure to suggest that the same routine of dropping off the child is repeated and that the parents assure the child that they are safe. Once the parents leave, I would calm the child then call the parents to assure them that the child is calm.

Farnaz

11/15/2018 10:48:28 pm

Yes, i think seperation anxiety is normal at this age when a child comes in a daycare so i tell parents about their different behaviours and satisfied them at my level best.

kayla ranta

11/17/2018 04:28:36 pm

1) Yes I do think that this behavior is sometimes expected and age appropriate.
2) I would explain to the parents that this behavior is sometimes normal and happens with other children as well.
3) I would ty to make the child and parents feel welcomed and comfortable instead of just taking the child from the parent. Maybe try to find a toy or something that engages the child's attention.

Ebony Bell

11/18/2018 10:07:36 am

In my experience, separation anxiety is totally normal, at this age. Especially because they are becoming more aware. I would start by printing off some information about developing social anxiety. Then I would explain to Jamal's parents that this is a normal stage and as soon as they are "out of sight, out of mind" he is fine and happy. I would suggest to the parents that we create a routine in them morning with Jamal, like singing a song or counting something in the room to distract him from his anxiety.

Aliah

11/18/2018 10:57:09 am

1. I believe this is relatively normal at this age. Jamal would be starting to become more aware of who his caregivers are, and who he is the most comfortable with. I would explain that he is just experiencing separation anxiety, and that it will calm down as Jamal gets more used to the drop off situation. In addition, the situation can be calmed down better by possibly leaving a comfort item temporarily while Jamal adjusts to the daycare setting, but there is no guarantee that it won't happen from time to time.

Valerie Sweisthal

11/18/2018 06:07:15 pm

Jamal, almost 10 months old and entering the separation anxiety stage, this is a normal progression of growth and development and a milestone in social-emotional development. Jamal’s parents are understandable concerned because he is now crying when they are parting for the day. Helping Jamal's parents understand this milestone, would help them to have piece of mind.

Tami McDonald

11/19/2018 12:37:13 am

This a very normal age appropriate behavior. I would reassure the parents that this a stage of development and that Jamal will calm down and feel safe once the transition is complete. I would also provide the literature for the stages of development for them. And I would comfort and then engage Jamal in something else. Like a walk around the room while talking to him.

Katie Hosler

11/19/2018 11:41:29 am

1. Yes, Jamal crying and clinging to his parents is normal behavior for a child his age.
2. I would first explain that separation anxiety is a normal behavior for young children. I would reassure the parent that the child is safe and the teachers are here to help calm them down.
3. To help ease a child's separation anxiety the parents can create a drop off routine, including the parents saying goodbye and not sneaking out, parents reassure the child that they will be back. As the caregiver I would empathize with the parents knowing it must be hard to leave your child crying but with my assistance it can be easier and I can comfort them.

Marwa Shaheen

11/21/2018 10:13:38 am

This is completely normal for his age. I would explain to the parents that infants at this age usually go through separation anxiety. I would try to inform them of all the milestones ahead of time and try to make sure jamal spends most of his time with one teacher in particular so he can grow comfortably with them

Nokomis Masoner

11/21/2018 04:55:11 pm

For one, I think that 10 months is completely normal for an infant to have separation anxiety.
For two, I would explain separation anxiety is a normal behavior for young children.
And for three, To help a child's separation anxiety the parents can create a drop off routine, and maybe they can reassure the child that they will be back.

Annie Li

11/23/2018 03:42:51 pm

It is normal for a child to experience anxiety when the child experiences new lessons or changes. It takes time for a child to adjust to changes. Some children have difficult time transitioning, but with time the child will learn and become familiar with new routine.

Michelle Nieves

11/23/2018 07:51:10 pm

This is age appropriate to have separation anxiety. I would assure the parents that if something had been happening, that Jamal would have shown signs much sooner. I would also encourage trying different separation and transition methods. She could potentially stay with him longer, or get them to the center earlier to allow for a smoother transition.

Josie

11/24/2018 01:16:04 pm

I would assure the parents that this is developmentally normal behavior for children Jamal's age. I would suggest short and meaning full goodbyes, not prolonging the level of stress put on Jamal. To help prevent negative stress, I would promote the same caregiver to be the one who greets Jamal and help him say goodbye to his parents. Ensuring a level of stability and routine.

rosanne lee

11/26/2018 09:59:59 am

1. This is age appropriate behavior.
2. Explain to the parents that this is a common occurrence and that children are getting used to familiar faces. This is actually a healthy occurrence in that it shows there is a bond between the child and their primary caregiver(s).
3. Provide a positive relationship to the child. Have consistent caregivers. Be friendly, warm, and be consistent!

kendra tomlin

11/26/2018 09:09:35 pm

I would explain this is a milestone in the infant's development and they should see it as a positive sign. I would reassure the parents that nothing happened and that the child is has reached a stage where he can now express his concern about something in his future. I would also repeat to the child that his parents will always return and go thru the scheduled of the day with him.

Erin Alvord

11/26/2018 09:27:56 pm

Yes, with my work at the center I have seen many 10 month old babies go through this. I would explain to the parent that this is a normal milestone for the children to go through and that we have delt with many children his age dealing with this. My best suggestion would be to find something that he loves to play with and distract him while his parents leave and then talk aobut what we are going to do that day.

Sami

11/27/2018 07:51:51 pm

This is normal for a baby to cry when their parents leave them at their daycare. I would understand why their baby is crying love them Nd comfort them. And explain that this normal for them to be crying and climbing when being dropped off. They are at that age where they know who Mom or dad is Nd they don't want to leave them .

Sumia Abdullahi

11/28/2018 12:56:08 pm

1)Yes, the behavior is age appropriate because the baby knows his parents.
2)I would explain that this is a milestone in this age group and it means that the child is developing well for his age.
3) I would provide reliability and consistency for this child so he can know what to expect when he comes to daycare.

Amanda Bird

11/28/2018 09:06:02 pm

I would be kind to Jamal and reassuring to his parents. It is normal and only expresses his love and attachment to his parents, not a fear or hatred of a caregiver.

Cameron Gruensfelder

11/29/2018 10:19:34 am

Yes, i believe this is a milestone in development. I would explain that he is forming bonds with people in his life. I would want to provide reassurance to the family and provide Jamal with reassurance and consistency.

Charles Shevlin

12/2/2018 12:34:30 pm

This behavior is normal, age- appropriate and is not a red flag or concerning behavior. i would also remind Jamal's parents that Jamal could be reaching a very important milestone in his young childhood that can attribute to him not always needing to be around his familiars which later on will ease his anxiety's and diminish the separation anxiety..

Suman Dogra

12/2/2018 01:37:15 pm

Infant grows really fast and overtime, they build a strong bond of love, affection and trust with primary caregiver so it very normal, if they cry and clinging when their parent drop them in daycare. This can be easily solved by good partnership between parents and caregiver. Parents has to ensure the kids that they are in good hands whereas caregiver has to show respect, love and give sense of security to the kids so they won’t feel alone.

Emily Snead-Hearing

12/2/2018 04:22:17 pm

I think this behavior is age appropriate. 10 months is a reasonable age for the child to be experiencing separation anxiety. I would explain to the parents that the reason this is happening now, as opposed to the last four months, is that the child has reached this stage in their development. I would also explain that is perfectly normal for their age and developmental timeline. In order to help prevent this from happening again, I would make sure that the people and the routines at the daycare are consistent so the child knows what to expect and can make the separation easier.

Angelia Way

12/3/2018 02:20:36 pm

Having that anxiety at that age is completely normal. I would explain to the parents that kids are learning and their brain is developing more and this is something all kids go through.

Alaethia

12/3/2018 04:23:06 pm

Yes I think this behavior is appropriate for this age. This shows that he has an attachment to his parents. I think that pulling form outside sources helps comfort people alot. Also calmly explaining that htis is a stage in development and is common with kids Jamal's age. I do not think there is anything you can do to prevent this reaction but just lessen it. Asking the parents i there is any object that brings the child comfort or having him dropped off around feeding time so you can feed him.

Mariam Worrell

12/3/2018 08:57:17 pm

Separation anxiety is very common at that age. I would explain to the parents that keeping drop offs short, simple and consistent will help their child cope.

angela

12/5/2018 06:25:38 pm

I would let Jamal's parents know that his sudden fussiness at drop off is perfectly normal for his age. I would let them know that as soon as they leave that he will be fine and happy for the rest of the day. I would also let them know that it is best that they tell him goodbye and make a hasty exit as to not prolong his distress.

Krista Webb

12/6/2018 01:51:01 pm

This is definitely a normal response for this age. I would explain to the parents that this is a milestone for this age and completely normal. It may be difficult to make this transition in the morning easier, but i would use a friendly and inviting face to make the baby feel welcomed and comfortable.

Skylar Peters

12/8/2018 05:00:22 pm

i would start out by explaining that its completely normal that her son is going through this . explain to mom the different developmental stages and that theres nothing to worry about. i would also offer mom and dad to stop in or call when ever they felt they needed to.

jenny ovalle

12/8/2018 10:36:49 pm

I would let the parents know the stages infants go through and as time goes by also I would keep them informed everyday as they pick there child up on how they did. that way they have a peace of mind through out there day

martha rocio garcia de leon

12/9/2018 04:20:29 pm

Separation Anxiety is a very common part of development, a lot of children undergo it and it is very important for the care taker and the center itself to provide the trust for the child to be able to over come and develop those skills to be able to be apart from mom and dad. These skills are crucial and have long term effects on children us helping them is just as important no matter at what point they develop it.
The way i would explain it to parents/coworkers would be to not be too concerned that they will get accustomed to not seeing their parents once they leave and it is our job that they feel trusting. Normally what we do in these situations is we give a nice welcoming and teach them to say bye to their parents.

Alexa

12/10/2018 02:07:44 pm

Jamal is now beginning to understand that he has two sperate environments and it is difficult for him to adjust. Separation anxiety is very common and he will eventually grow out of it. The parents should not be too worried but should work with the caregivers to find the best solutions for their child. It is also important for the child to feel comfortable away from his parents as well to succeed in future situations.

signe

12/10/2018 10:07:37 pm

1. i think this behavior is age appropriate and normal
2. i would explain to the parents that this is very normal and that he calms right down moments after they leave .i might send a photo or quick text to assure them all is well .
3. i think it will happen again until Jamal works through it and would recommend to the parents that they bring something he connects with for security . then we all act positive and confident and good byes are sincere but short .

Aspen

12/12/2018 01:50:55 pm

In my experience all older babies/ young toddlers have a hard time when their parents are leaving them. I would explain to the parents how the baby is finally becoming more aware of his surroundings and “stranger danger” but also reasssure them that their child will evenatually not do this because minutes after they die leave the child is perfectly okay. To help make this transition a little easier maybe mom or dad can bring a favorite blanket/ toy to help the child feel more secure.

Jessica Ohmer

12/15/2018 06:21:38 pm

This behavior is definitely age appropriate because the child is developing a close bond with their parents at this time and it can be hard to leave. I would explain to the parents that separation anxiety is normal at this age and with time they will grow out of it. Developing a genuine relationship with the children and the parents makes the transition a lot easier. Maybe discuss bringing a toy from home that comforts the child.

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12/16/2018 11:43:13 pm

The behavior is definitely age appropriate. It it very common at that age for a baby to start experiencing that separation anxiety and is actually a good sign of them reaching that developmental milestone. I would explain all of this to the parents and that it is not something to be concerned about and that we would work through it together. I would help the child feel secure by building a relationship with him/her and the parents, building trust, having consistency, love and patience and just helping the child to feel comfortable again.

Christopher Causey

12/18/2018 01:30:23 pm

Do you think this behavior or expectation is age-appropriate? Yes.
If so, how could you explain this to the parents/co-workers? I would explain his behavior is normal for his age and for parents to be confident that he will grow out of it.
Is there anything you can do to prevent this situation from happening again? No, it is a milestone. The child will adjust over time.

Meghan Chang

12/19/2018 11:08:29 pm

I think that this response is an age appropriate response and that at this time separation anxiety occurs in children. I would reassure the parents that this a milestone that every healthy child goes through because they have a good and strong relationship at home and in the family. As a care provider, I could help the transition by positively interacting with both the parents and child to show that the child is coming into another loving and supportive environment and to redirect the child's attention away from the parent(s) and towards a favorite activity or friend that I know they like.

lizette Atilano

12/20/2018 09:26:11 pm

1.) yes it is normal for a 10 month old to cry when parents drop off. 2.)It is a way of letting parents know he getting to know his or her surrounds and that those are his parents. 3.) I would let parents know this normal and assure them their baby is okay. and also interact with baby more and show more love and affection so baby can adjust and get used to getting drop off and that separation where he feels comfortable.

catherine burke

12/23/2018 08:58:04 am

I would explain that this is common and might even share a story of another child they know who went through something similar recently. Respectfully, of course. I think parents have their own separation anxiety so I would want them to feel comfortable with whoever receives their child at drop off and who is present at pick up for their own sense of security based in consistency. It is always lovely to share how kids at this age are just learning to show their love for their parents in a new way cause they are maturing! I have once or twice contacted the parents - sometimes only moments after drop off - when the child is "fine".

Reshma turambekar

12/23/2018 05:13:18 pm

Separation anxiety is normal at this age and we need to show the parents what is separation anxiety and also tell them , this is normal and expected development and positive behavior.

Ashley

12/24/2018 11:29:00 pm

Jamal's behavior is absolutely age-appropriate. Though it is distressing for both him and his parents, it is a normal stage of development. To ease the parents' minds, I would set up a time to discuss normal stages of development and emphasize that Jamal is exactly on target. Then to minimize this stress, I would work with the parents to develop strategies to make goodbyes easier.

Sebele

12/26/2018 03:00:48 pm

Separation anxiety is normal in very young children. And explaining the parent that's normal for their child to cry when they leave him in the child care place and, it's going to be fine once Jamal adjust his new place.

Heidi Ard

12/26/2018 04:00:03 pm

1. Yes, this behavior is age appropriate.
2. I would explain to Jamal's parents that it is completely age appropriate and give them ideas on how to help Jamal through their separation each time he is dropped off. Things like talking to him about what will happen, reassuring him that mommy and daddy will be back to get him later, having a "good-bye" routine, so that he know what to expect, encouraging one specific caregiver to be there with him each time so that there is consistency.
3. I would do my best to create and maintain a close relationship with Jamal and his parents. Help him to see that I am someone that Mommy and Daddy trust and are comfortable with. I would provide him with toys, books and comfort objects to help distract him after they leave and help him feel secure.

Renee Schmidt

12/27/2018 02:26:35 pm

I would reassure the parents that separation anxiety is totally normal and is considered a milestone for Jamal's age. Jamal is bonding with his mother and doesn't want her to leave which is good. The best I can do is to remind Jamal that his mommy will be back soon to pick him up and keep making sure that he is continuously given the care and attention that he needs.

Chelsea

12/27/2018 07:19:47 pm

Yes, this is a typical behavior for a 10-month-old. I would explain to the parent/caregiver that the child is learning that he is in a different environment and that his parents will not be available to him, and reinforce that this is a typical behavior for the age. In order to prevent this from happening in the future, I would ensure that the child is comfortable in the classroom, and keep a consistent teacher or teachers in that class.

Taquoia Bentley

12/28/2018 02:10:27 pm

Yes this is a normal behavior because the child has already built a relationship with their parents and they trust them. I would address the concerns with the parents by letting them know this is typical behavior and that once they build a relationship with us that they would grow out of it.

Arlonda

12/28/2018 02:12:24 pm

Separation anxiety is normal at this age children thrive on consistency. The way that I would talk to Jamal's is by having the conversation about how it is developmentally appropriate for him to experience this. another way to have the discussion is by providing pamphlets or even suggesting video that they could watch.

Kayla J Jurgens

12/28/2018 09:43:08 pm

Separation anxiety is normal at that age. I would reassure the parents that nothing is wrong a lot of babies going through a separation anxiety period. I would give the parents a handout on separation anxiety to reassure them that there is nothing wrong with their child and that this is completely normal.

Brittany Bloomstine

12/29/2018 07:17:57 pm

I do believe the behavior is expected at this age, because even when a child gets older the still have attachments to their parents. I would explain to the parents that with this age they are getting more aware that others might be moving to a different class, and noticing that the younger kids will still be in that class. I would let the parents know that during the rest of the day he has been fine and playing with others, and in the morning it is sometimes harder because usually it is harder for the infants in the morning. I would suggest to the parents that in the future if they maybe smiled and came up and showed the infant that it is a good place, that would help. Suggesting to the parents that when they are concerned, the baby can sense that as well.

Sarah Werneken

12/30/2018 11:13:48 am

Yes, the behavior is age appropriate. I would explain that this is a milestone in this age group and it means that the child is developing normally. There are some ways to make this tradition easier, such as letting the parents know that the child is laughing and playing already, only minutes after they have gone. Providing something positive and exciting as a distraction also helps make this transition easier. The main problem that has come up in my experience is the difficulty that the parents have separating themselves. Sometimes it helps to let them know that they need to just drop the child off and go, and not prolong the separation anxiety any longer than necessary.

Chri

12/30/2018 05:56:48 pm

Jamal didn't act this way for the previous 4 months because 4 months ago he wasn't in the separation anxiety stage. It is a milestone that he is reaching. It's developmentally appropriate for him to experience this. With lots of love and care he'll go through this.

Dalia Abouzied

12/31/2018 12:54:14 pm

I agree with statement, and i will show love and keep nurturing to kid and make communication with parent until they showing good behavior.

Chrisitna link

12/31/2018 01:37:10 pm

yes, this behavior is appropriate. The baby has been with his parents for 4 months, they are all he knows. The baby was put into a new environment with new caretakers. When the parents drop off the baby the caretaker should find a activity or toys to distract the baby so the parents can leave the room.

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